I've seen how fertility
can change everything.
I've seen how fertility
can change everything.
I’m Tanja, a fertility counsellor, coach, and trainer. My understanding comes from both professional experience and a deeply personal perspective.
I’m Tanja — fertility counsellor, coach, and trainer. And someone who has walked this path herself.
The journey that shaped
this work.
Everything I do today grew from something deeply personal.
Founder Message
From personal experience to purpose.
After 25 years in finance, I found myself wondering: Is this really how I want to spend the rest of my working life? Endless meetings and routines had left me longing for something more meaningful. I wanted to follow my true passion - helping others pursue their dreams - and turn what life had taught me into something that could make a difference. I knew firsthand how much it matters to have someone who listens, understands, and helps you find your way forward. That inspired me to create the kind of support I would have valued myself - something personal, practical, and genuinely helpful.
Looking back, I feel incredibly grateful that I had the opportunity to follow my passion and build a career around something I truly believe in. Not everyone gets that chance, and I never take it for granted. Today, supporting people through some of life's most challenging moments - and helping professionals do the same - is both a privilege and a responsibility I hold close to my heart.
Tanja Faessler
Fertility Counsellor, Coach & Trainer
Fertility Counsellor,
Coach & Trainer
Founder Message
From personal experience to purpose.
After 25 years in finance, I found myself wondering: Is this really how I want to spend the rest of my working life? Endless meetings and routines had left me longing for something more meaningful. I wanted to follow my true passion - helping others pursue their dreams - and turn what life had taught me into something that could make a difference. I knew firsthand how much it matters to have someone who listens, understands, and helps you find your way forward. That inspired me to create the kind of support I would have valued myself - something personal, practical, and genuinely helpful.
Looking back, I feel incredibly grateful that I had the opportunity to follow my passion and build a career around something I truly believe in. Not everyone gets that chance, and I never take it for granted. Today, supporting people through some of life's most challenging moments - and helping professionals do the same - is both a privilege and a responsibility I hold close to my heart.
Tanja Faessler
Fertility Counsellor,
Coach & Trainer
About Tanja
I’ve walked this
path myself.
I'm a fertility counsellor, coach, and trainer, but I'm also someone who has walked this path myself.
My husband and I experienced multiple pregnancy losses. Some were early; others came after we'd already seen a heartbeat and begun imagining a future together.
What I remember most isn't just the loss itself, but the loneliness surrounding it. Walking out of the hospital carrying nothing but emotional pain. Hearing well-meaning comments that somehow made everything feel heavier.
Even as a couple, we were each coping in our own way: close to one another, yet at times worlds apart.
Those experiences showed me just how much emotional support was missing. And they changed the direction of my life.
Fertility Counsellor since 2012
About Tanja
I’ve walked this
path myself.
I'm a fertility counsellor, coach, and trainer, but I'm also someone who has walked this path myself.
My husband and I experienced multiple pregnancy losses. Some were early; others came after we'd already seen a heartbeat and begun imagining a future together.
What I remember most isn't just the loss itself, but the loneliness surrounding it. Walking out of the hospital carrying nothing but emotional pain. Hearing well-meaning comments that somehow made everything feel heavier.
Even as a couple, we were each coping in our own way: close to one another, yet at times worlds apart.
Those experiences showed me just how much emotional support was missing. And they changed the direction of my life.
Fertility Counsellor since 2012
“I believe knowledge is most powerful when it’s shared. Learning has always been my passion. Helping others turn that knowledge into confidence, understanding, and meaningful change is what gives my work purpose.”
“I believe knowledge is most powerful when it’s shared. Learning has always been my passion. Helping others turn that knowledge into confidence, understanding, and meaningful change is what gives my work purpose.”
- Tanja Faessler
Understanding beyond the medical
Fertility is never just about treatments and outcomes. It’s also about emotions, relationships, identity, and the hopes we carry.
Knowledge that empowers
I believe understanding creates confidence. Sharing knowledge helps people make informed choices and professionals provide more meaningful support.
Understanding beyond the medical
Fertility is never just about treatments and outcomes. It’s also about emotions, relationships, identity, and the hopes we carry.
Knowledge that empowers
I believe understanding creates confidence. Sharing knowledge helps people make informed choices and professionals provide more meaningful support.
Compassion without
judgement
Every experience deserves to be acknowledged, without assumptions about what someone should feel, think, or do.
Learning never stops
Curiosity and continuous learning shape how I grow, challenge my perspectives, and share what I’ve learned with others.
Compassion without
judgement
Every experience deserves to be acknowledged, without assumptions about what someone should feel, think, or do.
Learning never stops
Curiosity and continuous learning shape how I grow, challenge my perspectives, and share what I’ve learned with others.
Where experience meets expertise.
With over 20 years of professional experience and a specialisation in fertility counselling since 2012, I bring together psychology, coaching, and mind-body approaches to support individuals, couples, and professionals working in fertility care.
Where experience meets expertise.
Background
Executive MSc in I/O Psychology -
Baruch College, CUNY
Applied Neuroscience and Brain Health -
The Neuroscience Academy, Dr. Sarah McKay
Mind/Body for Infertility -
Professor Alice Domar
Psychology, EMSc — City University of New York
Professional Coaching, PCC — ICF Applied Neuroscience and Brain Health Mind/Body for Infertility — Professor Alice Domar
Background
Executive MSc in I/O Psychology -
Baruch College, CUNY
Applied Neuroscience and Brain Health -
The Neuroscience Academy, Dr. Sarah McKay
Mind/Body for Infertility -
Professor Alice Domar
Certifications
ANZICA Accredited Fertility Counsellor
ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC)
APACS Master Practitioner & Supervisor
WSQ ACTA Certified Adult Trainer
Fertility Coaching & Kinderwunsch-Coaching
NGH Certified Hypnotist
APACS Master Practitioner and Supervisor WSQ ACTA Certified Adult Trainer Fertility Coaching, Kinderwunsch-Coaching NGH Certified Hypnotist
Certifications
ANZICA Accredited Fertility Counsellor
ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC)
APACS Master Practitioner & Supervisor
WSQ ACTA Certified Adult Trainer
Fertility Coaching & Kinderwunsch-Coaching
NGH Certified Hypnotist
Affiliations
Australian and New Zealand Infertility Counsellors Association (ANZICA)
Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC)
Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors Singapore (APACS) - Member & Supervisor
International Coaching Federation (ICF)
Personal fertility journey support Training fertility clinic professionals International conference speaker Bridging clinical and emotional care
Affiliations
Australian and New Zealand Infertility Counsellors Association (ANZICA)
Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC)
Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors Singapore (APACS) - Member & Supervisor
International Coaching Federation (ICF)
Knowledge. Compassion. Experience. Shared with you.
Everything I’ve learned, experienced, and come to believe in has shaped the way I support and educate others.
Through my self-paced online courses, I share practical knowledge, professional insights, and tools to help you feel more informed, confident, and empowered — whether you’re navigating fertility challenges yourself or supporting others through theirs.
Learn in your own time, at your own pace, and take away what matters most to you.
Knowledge. Compassion. Experience.
Shared with you.
Everything I’ve learned, experienced, and come to believe in has shaped the way I support and educate others.
Through my self-paced online courses, I share practical knowledge, professional insights, and tools to help you feel more informed, confident, and empowered — whether you’re navigating fertility challenges yourself or supporting others through theirs.
Learn in your own time, at your own pace, and take away what matters most to you.